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I dunno why but I started to hate Islam , i was born a Muslim , but i don't feel like its the right thing for me, im not saying that its a false religion, im just saying I cant be muslim and be happy in the same time, for the record I pray all the Salawat (just saying). |
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@sadie till now i didnt see anything useful islam gave me, ofcource it teach us not to lie, steal or be bad-mannered, but these are normal things any human should teach it to other human i mean all religions teach this. ya i can eat without saying bismilah or i can go everyday without reading quran, coz i have other things such as studying and work, and even if i read quran or said bismilah before eating i still feel its the same thing, if the day passes without reading quran its the same day if i read it. i know that because of god we breath speak and so on, and I say alhamdula for it. but things can be different. and moreover, I think im not gonna have kids because i dont want them to be in this confusion. @abuhussain sorry but nothing of what you said can help me |
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even if i were raised believing in something else i ll be taught the same thing, not to lie and steal etc.. the difference is just the details of how to pray and fast etc ... yes it is true. who told you islam is the only religion that teach that ? so those religions taught you to lie and steal and have sex before marriage Not exactly. However it didn't teach me to pray properly,did not teach me how to purify myself from sins and didnt teach me how to forbid evil.. Such as prayer, items in ones home ECT. Didn't teach me that drugs were forbidden as a matter of fact alcohol wasn't looked down apon either .. I was taught that i should marry before having sex but if i did so i could be forgiven . I was taught that god loves all his creation no matter what they do.. exactly was taught that Jesus pbuh was god in the flesh astughfiroallah. I was taught the final prophet has not come yet.. Must i continue? Also didn't teach me to cover my hair nor adornments... And taught me woman are just like men and don't have to listen to them ECT. Do you see why I say Islam leaves no confusion on what is right and what is error. so basically it gives more or different details about how to pray
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Because it is the total way of life for ever one |
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Brother, you need to practise Islam at a level whereby you achieve the happiness you are looking for without committing sins. None of my other brothers and sisters have the right to judge you. Allah is the only ONE that can judge you. Allah is both loving and forgiving, if He indeed believes you have conducted yourself inappropriately He will tell you on the day of judgement. Your answer is in your heart. However, you seem to hate being a believer because you are listening to others around you and their judgement of you. Listen to your heart. Despite many seeing everything around themselves as black and white, there can be shades of grey. You need to ensure that all you do is be moral, kind, don't harm anyone and share plenty of love as you would with your sisters and brothers. This is how I live my life as a Muslim and I am happy. |
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Hello Keep in mind before u read that You need Allah and Allah doesn't need you ... Your problem is very clear .. but how u r looking for the solution I'd very wrong. Without knowing who u r or where or how old ... I can clearly say you don't even know the Islam u were even born into ! Don't just pray Ur prayers as instructed .. fulfil your duties to Allah Learn and read and study. Seek how to get the sweetenes of mean and Islam .. and once u taste it u will never want it to disappear again. If you aren't happy.. ever thought to yourself the problem might be you and not Islam ? Be loyal to Allah and nice him your heart and you will be guided. U made me think of all there poor ppl in Burma that r dying bcuz they are Muslim and U online find an excuse to stay in it .... I wish this Is just a prank ... Goof luck |
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Why would you ever want to leave this amazing religion? I wish I was taught more about Islam in my childhood. Now I have to teach myself a lot, and I don't mind. You should be so proud you can pray and you were born Muslim, Allah handed you Islam, it's in your blood. Be thankful. Allhamdulilah. May Allah guide you to the right path Insh'Allah. |
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Islam give guidance such as it does not just forbid interest but it also teaches why use of gold over paper money prevent interest. God taught us not to speculate (gamble). Gambling comes in many form for example: Currency derivatives (forex) ,spurs speculative trading, which is one of the primary causes of the 1997 East-Asian financial crisis. Some industry observers remark that a significant portion of currency derivative trading we see today is based on speculation, rather than for genuine economic reasons (such as hedging). That is my humble opinion.The loving God guide us not to play with forex, gambling, interest n future |
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@ armky Here is what the Holy Quran says about singing. "And of mankind is he who purchases idle talks (i.e.music, singing, etc.) to mislead (men) from the Path of Allah without knowledge, and takes it (the Path of Allah, the Verses of the Qur'an) by way of mockery. For such there will be a humiliating torment (in the Hell-fire)." (Surah Luqman, Verse 6) If you don't doubt in existence of God and offers all the compulsory salaah and do all good things and then all you want to do now is listening to songs then I must say you are a better Muslim then myself. Listening songs is not a sin that will through you out of Islam, and for which you hate Islam. |
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You can not expect me to give you all the hadiths and Quranic verses against music and singing in one comment, because then you will just scroll down and down and will not read the comment. Brother, a good muslim means a good practicing muslim who follow the complete religion and that is why you will not find anyone declaring himself as a good muslim. I don't say myself as a good muslim rather I call myself a Believer and that is why I have chosen this username for myself. I can not say myself a "FOLLOWER" because it means you follow the total religion. No Muslim can say that he/she is following the total religion and by the fear of Allah no muslim will say that he is a good muslim because it is only Allah who knows who is good or bad. And also it is the weapon of shaitan for practicing muslims who do every good deed to make them believe that they are very good so that all their good deeds can be unvalidated. |
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