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Salamo alaikom
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Noble Verse 2:221 Do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters), until they believe: A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you. Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But God beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise." i think its not fair that u living that way going against Allah Order. its not a smallest sin its one of the bigger sin , Ask her to be a muslium if she really cares about u and love u and if u love her then ask her to be muslium. do u love to see yr wife put into hell fire. if she did not want to ba a muslium than leave her immediately bcoz they put a lie against Allah and his Messsanger and they are betraying the humanity , All your repent are in-vain until u make her muslium or leave her. |
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100% correct answer has been provided by @rehanalam. Ask her to be Muslim. If she agreed then live with her. If not agreed to become Muslim then leave her. DON'T SUPPORT THE UNBELIEVER. |
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I reverted to Islam in July 2012. My husband did not revert. But I stayed with him having hope that he would be convinced to accept Islam. I never asked him to revert. He never prevented me from practicing my religion and he never prevented me from teaching Islam to our children. He just began reading the Quran 2 weeks ago! He is asking many questions and is gaining more understanding of Islam. Even his mother has started reading the Quran and asking about Islam. I have still never asked him to revert. Yet, in sha Allah, they will both come to Islam. What is your belief? Do you think your wife may change from seeing the change in your life? |
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cocolia42 mashallah first of all i really congrats you on reverting back to your own religion and also helping yr husband and your mother in law to accept the religion .i pray for u Allah guide you more on the right track and Allah will give best reward for you work .Can you share your story how you revert to Islam thanks? As far as question is concerned person already said I m sure 100% that she will never convert in her life? so i ask him to convert her or leave her . I'm happy to share my story, but it is a long one for here. If you'd like you can email me or find me on facebook (cocolia@mail.com) or go to http://www.religiousforums.com/forum/ |
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my brother only allah guides someone to the true way,dont say your wife can never accept to convert to islam,let me give u an example of myself,i became muslim on 25 november 2012.who made me change?i promised my self never ever ever change my church worse still my religion.no 1 asked me to repent,but i was changed and convinced by the life style of one muslim brother,how he submitted himself to allah,how he loved his religion,thats what made me change.he was very suprized when i told him i want to embrace islam,because he was not my friend,we just knew eachother as classmates,so that realy shocked him.he asked me many times why i wanted to embrace islam,but i just told him that i have wasted a lot of time as a christian,now i wanted to follow the true way.am just 20 years,a military student studing in a foreign country.my country is a christian nation,they know very little about islam,they have even threatened to fire me because of my new religion,my family cant even accept that fact because they think am just joking,so am yet to meet them inshaa allah in july when i finish my course,i dont know what will happen to me,but i know allah knows whats best for me.so dont worry,just pray for your wife,inshaa allah ,she will be guided to the truth.me i pray for my whole nation,i pray that 1 day it will be declared a muslim nation,inshaa allah.salam |
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Walikum Assalam Brother, Do not leave her, try to convince her to embrace Islam by your good actions and not by your words only. And she is totally lawful for you, as the Holy Qur'an says, "This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers." (Holy Quran, 5:5) Muslim men are permitted to marry women from the "People of the Book." When you marry her you know what she does, you know her drinking habbits and chatting on facebook. And so it will not be fair with her if you just leave her now. Because if you leave her, you will give her a very bad impression of The Religion of Islam, and she might think that because of Islam her husband left her and she will think that it would be better if Allah (S.W.T) haven't gave you heedayah. Brother show her the path of Jannah and Mercy by your actions. I suppose she is a good girl and she should be treated the same way. :-) |
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@khadijah is right. Allah guides whom He pleases. So don't give up on your wife so easily. Have patience and give dawah through your actions. |
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We must not make haram for ourselves what Allah has made halal for us. Muslim men are allowed to marry believing christian and Jewish women. Having said that, a wife with bad habits that can impact on the children of the marriage is a liability and since to divorce or keep her is a matter of choice, I think the best judgement rests with the husband. If she is good and religious and you have no fear that she would make your children leave the fold of Islam then continue giving her dawa through your actions and speeches and pray for her to see the light of Islam. |
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@halibra do u find today a believing Christian and Jews are they really believers of book . The book that has changed and not in the original Condition any more . |
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