May Allah's peace and Mercy be Upon you.
What is the conduct approved by Islam? I mean what should be our behavior according to the Qur'an and our Prophet Mohamed's teachings?
Should we be shy or bold? Should we be deliberate or deceptive?
Thank you everyone who is volunteering to calm my curiosity.
"Indeed, Allāh orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad conduct and oppression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded." (16:90). "Allāh does not like the public mention of evil except by one who has been wronged. And ever is Allāh Hearing and Knowing."(4:148)
in the other side, shaytan/satan is ordering us to do evil. " O mankind, eat from whatever is on earth [that is] lawful and good and do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy. He only orders you to evil and immorality and to say about Allāh what you do not know."(2:169)
"O you who have believed, do not follow the footsteps of Satan. And whoever follows the footsteps of Satan – indeed, he enjoins immorality and wrongdoing. And if not for the favor of Allāh upon you and His mercy, not one of you would have been pure, ever, but Allāh purifies whom He wills, and Allāh is Hearing and Knowing."(24:21)
the good manners in Islam is the most weighty deed, as our prophet was "And indeed, you are of a great moral character."(68:4) he was sent to purify us from bad into good manners; "Just as We have sent among you a messenger from yourselves reciting to you Our verses and purifying you and teaching you the Book and wisdom and teaching you that which you did not know. So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to Me and do not deny Me."(2:151-152) It is He who has sent among the unlettered a Messenger from themselves reciting to them His verses and purifying them and teaching them the Book and wisdom – although they were before in clear error – And [to] others of them who have not yet joined them. And He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise."(62:2-3)
Allah love those: ".. And do good; indeed, Allāh loves the doers of good."(2:195)
".. Indeed, Allāh loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves."(2:222)
".. indeed, Allāh loves those who fear Him." (3:76)
" Who spend [in the cause of Allāh] during ease and hardship and who restrain anger and who pardon the people – and Allāh loves the doers of good" (3:134)
"... nor did they weaken or submit. And Allāh loves the steadfast." (3:146)
"... Indeed, Allāh loves those who rely [upon Him]." (3:159)
"... And if you judge, judge between them with justice. Indeed, Allāh loves those who act justly."(5:42)
every good manners and good action is preferred in Islam. and yes being shy is one of the branches of faith/Iman. and to love to others what we love for ourselves and to sleep while having no dislike/hate to anyone...etc. (peace to you.. good luck in finding the truth)