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Salam,
I'm married about 6 years now, i have 2 beautiful kids.
but i just find out my wife is talking to an other man on the phone.
when i confront her, she was telling me it's a business thing bla bla bla...
So to make sure ,I just listen to her phone call... is it a bad thing in Islam ?.
But i was surprise to hear some conversations with the man . they were talking about love ... and things i can't say here. She even accept money from the man one time....
So what Islam said about wife who behave like that ? wa salam |
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Wa alayka salam!!! My brother, all u need 2 do is, dnt react as if u hear or see anything, coz u will only be deep go thought all the time. Try 2 talk 2 Allah (SWT) and will definitely hear ur prayer, coz Allah (SWT) said, call on me and I will answer you... Maa salam |
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brother according to my experience she will be not intersted in you anymore and she fairs of her kids life so she goes behind your back but Allah is the only judge whom can judge everything if you want her back show some interest in her, treat her like kid make her set with you talk to het nicely very calm but with love like you talk to a kid and make her undrstand how much you care and love her. most woman go to that path thinking that you have care for them but man's are always in their of life so be a mature person do not start fight in the middlle it will not sort anything start of from your self and tell her how much you love her your family and how much you care about them and if its in your power take her for a dine in a such resturant she likes but once you told her your feelings let her and see if she changed her path as I belive she will change het path and put more in your way if want her full on do that with her every week and she will be yours. Allah Malik of everything ask Allah to help you start going on the way Allah and ask him to help you he is the most mercyfull and kind. |
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im going to sort of give my opinion i dont belive its haram just because its forbidden for her to speak to a man without a mahram even if it is buisness you are supposed to be with her when a non mahram speaks to her in case somthing happens like above but i think you shouldnt do it behind her back explain this to her and tell her you wil listen because she cannot talk to him withour you there wether she likes it or not since its your duty to protect since apparently she isnt protecting herself |
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