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Is it permisseble to have oral sex with your own wife

asked Jun 15 '12 at 17:45 Semlio 8112 Semlio's gravatar image

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hmm... base on my knowledge, some say it's okay, some say it's makrooh...

some say it's okay because Al-Qur'an only forbid to have anal sex, have sex while wife on her period, gain pleasure not from your wife, such as prostitute, masturbate and toy sex. as long as no one get hurt, you both can have sex in anyway you want as long as you gain pleasure by your spouse (I don't remember if the oral sex that allowed are when the husband ejaculate his semen into his wife's mouth, or the oral sex just for foreplay).

some say it's makrooh (I forgot whether it makrooh or haram...) because oral sex considered not lawful, you already have genital for sex, you supposed use your mouth for recite Qur'an and do zikir. oral sex in this case is oral sex when the husband ejaculate his semen into his wife's mouth... that's why it's haram (or makrooh)... but if the oral sex is only for foreplay it's okay (as far as I remember).

feel free to correct me if what I said is against Qur'an and hadith...

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answered Jun 17 '12 at 06:34 Basith 1448 Basith's gravatar image
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answered Aug 05 '12 at 16:32 TeenMuslim ♦ 99216 TeenMuslim's gravatar image

Don't listen to them. Everything in sex is Halal if she is your wife except anal sex.

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answered Sep 11 '12 at 21:46 wakoubi 691 wakoubi's gravatar image

According of my knowledge and understanding the makrow part is because every man are slowed to enjoy their desire but its haram because it can bring sickness to your wife and plus the other views you minsion but staying away from such thing is better because if you going to pleasure then you will comment on haram. I'm not very high scholor but I have been told its haram.

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answered Jun 17 '12 at 08:54 Bashirmangal 152 Bashirmangal's gravatar image

Other than ANAL SEX, their is no other sex with the wife is forbidden. As long as both husband and wife AGREE to indulge in it.....again AGREE first, then their is nothing wrong or filthy about it. Those who are against it simply assuming that neither you nor your wife does an ISTINJA or washing off of private parts with water after urination. If you do that and can PRAY YOUR NAMAZ with that so called "FILTHY"...!!!! part of your body hanging or existing between your legs then why can't you use it for sexual pleasure. How come it is permissible to have that part in your body and you can FAST in RAMADAN or read Namaz....!!! I don't see any hadith discussing about oral sex, that means it is more of personal choice.....!!!! Those who think that seemen in mouth makes your mouth dirty forever then they need to have their head examined....!!! Have they ever heard off word called "WASHING".... so as long as you wash it off and wash yourself off by bathing (if you have ejaculated or the female has reached orgasm by oral sex...) and do wadu their is nothing wrong. Reciting Quran or reading Namaz is prohbited if you are NAJEES by any means and it is permissable once you have taken proper teharat....!!!! so how can it be prohibited after oral sex... if you have cleaned your NAJASAT....!!!! Inhibition against oral sex is more mental than real.... it is same as a vegetarin who never ate meat is asked to eat one... he/she will be repulsed with the thought of eating a dead body.... where is for non-vegetarians it is delicious... because they never look it as a dead animal to begin with or they have been eating the meat since they started eating solid food.....!!!!

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answered Dec 02 '12 at 19:48 Raja21 181 Raja21's gravatar image

based on my reading and belief the quran prohibits anal sex .i haven seen a verse or aya which prohibits oral which means you can do oral sex with your own wife

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answered May 22 at 03:32 aisaal 401 aisaal's gravatar image

no it is not allowed in islam to have oral sex

Oral sex in islam

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answered Jun 04 at 01:39 saleemkhan 633 saleemkhan's gravatar image

Dear brother its not permitted to have oral sex with your wife and if you do it she is tallaq on you and you doing zena with her. In case if you didn't know and done it then ask Allah (j) for forgivness and don't repeat it again cause she will be tallaq on you.

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answered Jun 16 '12 at 22:42 Bashirmangal 152 Bashirmangal's gravatar image
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Please give references! Like many others I've never heard of this as well.

(Jun 18 '12 at 23:10) faham faham's gravatar image

What is Haram is clear in Islam and what is Halal too Is clear between them exist the doubtful things and he who distances himself from doubtful things, distances himself from Haraam. And The Quran gives you the liberty to enjoy your wife with No any inhibitions except for Anal Sex, when she's mensurating - No Farj sex but can still enjoy yourselves minus farj sex. I just want to say if one commits Oral sex with his wife IS NOT ZINA, even if it is not recommended and I consider oral sex on case by case basis but basically Makruf that can turn Haram depending on the case.

(Feb 05 at 19:46) Bani Hashim Bani%20Hashim's gravatar image

Salam alayka, my brother, havin oral sex wit one's wife is very bad, coz by puttin ur AZAKAR (penis) in2 ur wife's mouth, u are authomaticaly tellin her dat she is a prostitute. If u view it very well in any perspective, u will knw dat it's nt gud at all... Maa salam

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answered Jun 17 '12 at 12:16 abdulsomad 233 abdulsomad's gravatar image

What is Haram is clear in Islam and what is Halal too Is clear between them exist the doubtful things and he who distances himself from doubtful things, distances himself from Haraam. And The Quran gives you the liberty to enjoy your wife with No any inhibitions except for Anal Sex, when she's mensurating - No Farj sex but can still enjoy yourselves minus farj sex. I just want to say if one commits Oral sex with his wife IS NOT ZINA, even if it is not recommended and I consider oral sex on case by case basis but basically Makruf that can turn Haram depending on the case.

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answered Feb 05 at 19:47 Bani Hashim 19111 Bani%20Hashim's gravatar image
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